The situation involves more than just you.
She needs your support now more than ever.
Gather all the facts
Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.
Express yourself honestly
It’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.
The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
Don’t pressure her.
Applying pressure will only push her away. You will do well to work together as a team.
You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.